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今日は春日部教会白石多美出先生の学びでした。いつも温かく私たちを迎えてくださり、和やかなうちにクラスが始まりました。
今日の礼拝メッセージは、ヤコブの手紙３章１節〜１２節から、良い人間関係を結ぶためにどのようにしたらよいのか、三つのポイントでお奨めくださいました。
�� 言葉には力があることを知る
意識をしないで話をすると、人は自分の言いたいことを言うようになってしまう。何気なく自分の発する言葉によって人を傷つけてしまうことがある。人はそのことに気づき、そのことを意識して話すことにより、人を活かす言葉を語ることができる。
�� 肯定的な語りかけは、人を活かし、自分も活かされる
聞いていてとても心地よく、納得する肯定的な話をする人は、結局自分にその言葉が返ってきて、自分も活かされる。
�� 肯定的な言動をしている人と交流することが大事である
肯定的な思考をもっている人との交流が大事であり、良い影響を受けることができ、またそのことにより良い影響を与える人になることができる。もしかしたら人を傷つけているかもしれないと自ら反省し、気づくことができたら、その人は変わることができる。人を傷つけていることに気づかない人は、その人自身が傷ついている人であり、ほんとうに心豊かで満たされている人は、人を活かすことができる人である。
ヤコブの手紙３章６節には「舌は火です。舌は「不義の世界」です。」とあり、また８節には「舌は疲れを知らない悪で、死をもたらす毒に満ちています。」（新共同訳）とあります。しかしまた、人を癒すのも肯定的な人の言葉でもあります。人は自分と関わりをもってくれたと感じると生きることができ、だからこそ言葉は大事です。小さい子どもに注意をするときに、最後には必ず肯定的な言葉をかけてあげることが大事です。「あなたならできるからやってごらん」と声をかけると、子どもはまたそこから立ち上がり、元気に駆け回っていくという。白石先生の語りかけに、肯定的な言葉を人に投げかけることが、どんなに大切なことであり、また自分も活かされていくのだということをまた教えていただき、そのような人に日々変えていただきたいなと心から神様に願いました。
午前中の後半からは、境界線（ヘンリー・クラウド、ジョン・タウンゼント著）のＰ２１８から学びが始められました。境界線の問題は、子ども時代からずっと持っていた古い境界線の問題であり、記憶によって無意識のうちに行動し始めることであることを学びました。そしてそれを断ち切ることの第一のステップは、今なお引きずっている古いやり方に気づくことです。そして、聖書に基づく新しい生き方をしていくことはとても大事なことであり、不完全な親との間ではお手本に限界があるが、完全なお手本である神様の言葉を信じ、従っていくことにより、正しく物事を見ていくことができることを学びました。そして、ベストパートナーは、主・従の関係ではなく、相手の人格を尊重して、大切にしていくこと。そのためには、正しい境界線を学ぶことが大切であることを再確認いたしました。より良い人間関係を築くために必要な「鍵」を今日も学ぶことができ、出席した皆が心豊かになって家路に着きました。
今日もほんとうに有意義な学びをありがとうございました。白石先生の講義に心から感謝いたします。
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